Does Your Pillow Cause Headaches?

Did you have a good night’s sleep or did you wake up with another headache?

What could have caused your head pain? Could the culprit be, perhaps, your pillow?

Headaches don’t happen for no reason. They happen because your neck, head or shoulder muscles get tight and cranky and complain. They let you know they are unhappy by creating head pain.

Muscles cause headaches. Pillows can help them be better or worse.

Do you sleep on your side or on your back?

If you are a stomach sleeper, we won’t be addressing that much today. Stomach sleeping puts a lot of strain on a neck, and most stomach sleepers I have observed tell me they tend to sleep on the same side all the time. So, stomach sleeping isn’t the best option for anyone. If you do that and can change it, your neck will thank you.

But, there is one benefit to stomach sleeping, especially if you could switch from side to side and not stay locked in one position. The benefit is it helps you maintain the slight curve in your low back that we are supposed to have. In order to keep our head over our shoulders without strain when we are upright, we need a slight low back curve. The curve goes in the direction of our abdomen or belly – forward, not rounded backward. The curve creates a hollow in our lower back.

So back to your headache and your pillow.

If you sleep on your back and your neck is pushed into a too-straight position during the night, either by your pillow or the lack of a pillow, that creates head pain.

There are muscles on top of your shoulders, at the front/sides of your neck and at the base of your skull. If any of those get strained, a headache results. If you are prone to migraines, this is a good way to get one.

Also, if you sleep with a fat pillow pushing your head forward that causes two problems.

1. It can definitely cause head pain.
2. It perpetuates the “head forward” posture that we would like to eliminate.

I have found three pillows which are helpful in maintaining the curve in the back of your neck and preventing waking up with a headache.

1. The Tempurdic pillow or a similar memory-foam construction pillow. It softens and sinks under the weight of your head, but supports the backside of your neck. Warning: Most are way too big for back sleepers. Get a junior/child size or, at most, a medium size pillow.  There are generic versions, some may feel different.

2. Interestingly, a down “stomach sleeper” pillow is good for back sleepers. Fluff it up, punch to make a depression for your head, and enjoy. There should be enough down beneath your neck to keep a nice curve in it as you sleep. You can even pull up the wings, or bottom corners, of the pillow to stabilize your head. This is especially helpful if you get migraines during the night. It prevents you from tilting your head to the side and straining your neck muscles while sleeping.

3. You can make your own custom pillow from a fiberfill batt. This is similar to cotton batting, but it is made of polyester fiberfill, which is soft and cushy. You can buy a fiberfill batt (not the loose stuffing) at a fabric store or department. Take it out of the package and roll it into a neck roll which feels like the correct size to you, for your neck. If you feel you need a little more lift under your head, leave a tail on your roll. The flat tail will go under your head and the rounded neck roll goes under your neck. You can just place the part of the batt you are using into a pillow case and roll it up; no sewing necessary! You can always add more or take some away to be most comfortable. You can have two or three in different sizes around, and switch as desired. It’s very inexpensive.

If you are a side sleeper and wake with a headache, the reason is most likely that your head (and therefor your neck) was tilted either up or down. Your pillow is too fat or too flat. Your neck and base-of-skull muscles get shortened or pulled on (strained) during the night and those muscles cause your head pain or migraine.

Side sleepers should use a pillow which allows their neck to be in neutral all night, not tipped chin to ceiling or floor. It’s the tipping or tilting that causes neck and head pain. You may find it useful to stack two flatter pillows, or place a down pillow on top of a firmer pillow. You can also generate your own custom pillow, as discussed above, and place it on top of your bottom pillow. You may find a nice but expensive pillow especially designed for side sleepers which has a firmer core and cushy outer layer.

The idea for side sleepers it to support your head in a neutral position and to support your neck, also. That means slightly more cushioning under your neck.

When you buy a pillow, check on the store’s return policy. If you try it for a night or two and it doesn’t work out for you, some stores will let you return it. That way you won’t end up with a bunch of unusable pillows that cost a lot of money.

Sometimes the answer to getting a good sleep without a headache is as simple as getting/making/creating a pillow just your size.

Here’s to a good night’s sleep! Yours!

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Does Massage Help Tension Headaches?

Massage definitely does help tension headaches. No question about it.

There have been studies done which indicate that trigger point therapy and other forms of massage are beneficial for tension-type headaches.

I’m really biased about the value of massage. I have seen, and experienced, tremendous relief at the hands of highly skilled massage therapists.

But I have a question. Or two.

Why treat something after it occurs?

Why not prevent it from occurring in the first place?

Tension-type headaches, along with other types of head pain, are caused by making our muscles tense. How do we do this?

Poor posture, working or walking with our head forward, instead of over our shoulders. Sitting in rolled-forward positions. Being out of balance.

How can we prevent muscle tension headaches?

Sounds simple but it takes a little effort: We have to get back in balance.

Do you remember (your body remembers) the great posture you had when you were a toddler, when your head was over your shoulders and everything was in alignment? Your ears were over your shoulders and your shoulders were directly in line over your ankles. That is the same posture we should all be in again.

Rather than use therapeutic massage only to treat the symptoms of being temporarily or generally out of balance (your headache is a symptom), take advantage of massage to help you get back into balance. Talk with your massage therapist about this. Not all massage therapists have the education or skill to help you get back into neutral.

Of course, he or she will want to help you get rid of your tension headache, and that’s fine.

But he or she will be doing much more for you if they can help you by straightening you up and helping you get into a strong, neutral position.

Avoiding headaches is possible a great deal of the time. All we have to know is why we get them and how to stop doing that.  That’s where Head Pain Natural Relief can come in.

We get headaches because we are out of physical balance. We can avoid headaches by getting back into balance–into neutral posture–when we sit, stand or walk and, yes, even when we sleep.

Pay attention to what you are doing when you start to hurt. That will give you clues as to what position you are in, which may be out of neutral.

Sometimes a headache doesn’t come on for a while after an activity, so look for a pattern. “After I do (blank) I get a headache.”

Ask yourself, “Why?” “What can I do to change my position, so I don’t strain my neck and back muscles?” “What can I do so I don’t clench my jaw muscles?”

Sometimes the (blank) can be as simple as watching tv. Why? Because most of our “comfortable” couches and chairs put our necks into forward positions, and that position strains our neck muscles. Our car seats are not so good most of the time, either.

If you pay attention and think about it, you may be able to pinpoint the activity or position which aggravates your muscles.

Even though there are advertisements for pain relieving medicine which addresses “the common everyday headache”, we are not supposed to have them. We are not designed to have them.

Let’s work on getting you back into the position you were born to be in.  And, yes, massage can help you get rid of your muscle tension headaches.

Let’s work on getting you back to the neutral toddler you were.

Your body remembers; you can do it. A little time, a little work, but you can do it!

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Are You Sitting Down? What Hurts?

I wonder if you are sitting down while you are reading this?

I’d pretty much bet you are. And, I’ll bet there is a good chance that something is hurting you while you are reading this.

How about trying something different?

Stand up to read. While you’re at it, reach up to the sky with both arms. Big stretch, that’s good.

You know how a cat or dog stretches their back legs when they wake up? One leg at a time goes into a backward stretch, away from their body. While you are standing, stretch your right leg out, behind you. Ahhh, that’s nice. Now stretch your left leg (while you are standing on the right leg, of course.)

Reading while you are seated is not bad. It is fine, as long as…

1. You are using your strong posture muscles to be upright.
2. You aren’t collapsing forward.
3. Nothing hurts.

Otherwise, try a different position to read. You could kneel, or stand, or sit on a big, round ball which will cause you to balance and use your muscles.

Or, start a program which will develop your strong back muscles so they can hold you up while you read.

My goal is for you to be pain free!

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